Thursday, June 24, 2010

Six Ways to Create Strong Relationships


Ask anyone what's most important in their life, and chances are you'll hear that it's their family, their spouse, their children or their friends.

People matter most.

At least that's what we believe in our hearts and what we want our lives to be about. But unless we put action behind our sentiment, we'll more likely feel regret instead of content at the end of the year or our lives.

It takes intention, determination, and skill to go about everyday life in ways that build relationship. But living otherwise is gambling that there will be a tomorrow, a time other than this present moment when we'll be able to ask for forgiveness - or extend it - and shower our attention on loved ones to make up for missed opportunities. Why risk it? Why resist it? Relationships are the main source of happiness in life, and you can build relationships that matter in minutes a day.

Here are six tips to C-R-E-A-T-E stronger relationships this year:

C is for COMMIT: Make a decision to commit yourself fully to all of the relationships in your life. If you can't, that's all the answer you need. Half-hearted is better parted. Whole-hearted is love imparted.

R is for RECOGNIZE: See the person for who they are in their core being. Respond to him or her with that vision firmly in place, and you'll be a harbinger of hope. Recognizing a person's essence empowers us to believe the best about them in every situation, and nine times out of ten, be right about what's going on in their heart.

E is for ENGAGE: Much of our relating is head-to-head. While provocative or stimulating, it's not really relationship-building. Engage heart-to-heart and you'll be creating life-changing connections. Puran & Susanna Bair, authors of "Energize Your Heart," offer this quick tip to get you out of your mind and into your heart: Place your hand over your heart as you speak. The mere act of touching our hearts moves our energy into sincerity and sensitivity. Try it.

A is for ACCEPT: We know we can't change others. But we keep trying, and it's pretty darn annoying. This year, vow to give it up. Consider how your world would feel if you decided that nothing and no one needed to change in order for you to show up in your life as your happy-go-lucky, wonder-filled self.

T is for TRUST: Everyone has inherent wisdom and their own life path. Try trusting that the people in your life, children and spouse included, learn best by doing what's in their hearts to do, even if it looks like a mistake to you. Firsthand experiences are the fastest learning paths. So stop teaching and preaching and get out of the way of your loved ones' learning. Interference just postpones the experiences they need to grow.

E is for ENERGIZE: We get more of whatever we energize, so with every word and action, you are choosing what you want to see more of in your relationships. What we talk about and get excited about, what we put our hearts and souls into connecting about - these are the energizers. So create conversations around how much you appreciate and admire what your loved ones are doing right, what they're not doing wrong, and what that says about who they are.

Put these tips into practice and you'll be living a life that proves your loved ones matters most.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Father’s Day Celebration

Father’s Day Celebration

First of all,i want to say thank you for my father Mr.Majuri Masanging for him dedication,support and advice.I'm very glad because I have father like you "pa" even you are very strictly sometime but I now you are very kind person.I love you "pa".Here I will share little information why we celebrate fathers day each year.

The very solicitous and beautiful festival of Father’s Day is celebrated with lot of enjoyable and enthusiasm in countries around the world. Though the date and manner of celebrations differ in several countries what remain visibly same is the spirit of the festival. Everywhere, people take occasion of Fathers Day to express thankfulness for their dad and to tell them how much they are loved and cherished and people also celebrate Father’s Day with their granddad, father-in-law, stepfather, uncle or with any other man who is loving and protective as a father.

What is Fathers Day?

* To wish a father for his unending and self-less duties towards our life, we celebrate fathers day.
* Just like celebrating mother’s day to wish her how special she is in our life, fathers day is also a similar celebration to the expression of male parenting or fatherhood important.

Why Fathers Day is celebrated?

* Fathers Day is celebrated to honor every father and to make father’s realize how special he is in everyone’s life.

The History of Father’s Day:

The history of Father’s Day dates back to 1909, in Spokane, Washington. Sonora Smart Dodd was listening to a Mother’s Day sermon, at the Central Methodist Episcopal Church. The lecture inspired her to have a special day dedicated to her father, William Jackson Smart, who had brought her up and her siblings, single-handedly, after their mother died. Sonora could realize the greatness of her father and wanted to let him know how deeply she was touched by his sacrifices, courage, selflessness and love. To pay a tribute to her great dad, Sonora held the first Father’s Day celebration on 19th of June 1910, on the birthday of her father. She was the first to solicit the idea of having an official Father’s Day observance. However, unlike Mother’s Day, which was readily accepted, Father’s Day was received with mockery and hilarity. Though the day was gaining attention, it was mostly for the wrong reasons. Jokes, satire, parody and derision were all that the day was commemorated for. In 1913, a bill in accordance with making the day official was introduced. The idea was approved by US President Woodrow Wilson in 1916. Later, in 1924, the idea gained further momentum as it was supported by President Calvin Coolidge. In 1926, a National Father’s Day Committee was formed in New York City. However, it was thirty years later that a Joint Resolution of Congress gave recognition to Father’s Day. Another 16 years passed before President Richard Nixon established the third Sunday of June, as a permanent national observance day of Father’s Day in 1972. The day was primarily nationalized in the honor of all good fathers, who contribute as much to the family as a mother, in their own ways. Another theory states that even before Dodd came into the picture, Dr. Robert Webb of West Virginia is believed to have conducted the first Father’s Day service in 1908 at the Central Church of Fairmont. However, it was the colossal efforts of Dodd, which made it possible for the day to acquire national recognition. The white and red rose was made the official flowers for Father’s Day celebration. While the white rose commemorated gratitude for a father, who was deceased, a red rose expressed thankfulness to one, who was living.

Father’s Day Facts:

Father’s Day is one of the most awaited holidays in the world. It represents the day when we tell our dad how much he means to us and how lucky we are, to have him in our life. Though you don’t need a special occasion to convey all this to him, telling it on Father’s Day can make your daddy feel all the more special. While all of us know that Father’s Day is a day dedicated to dads across the world, not many people are aware of the fact that it originated in the United States of America, that too owing to the efforts of Sonora Smart Dodd. Apart from this, there are many other interesting facts related to Father’s Day, almost all of which have been listed in the lines below. Go through them and increase your knowledge about the special day!

Father’s Day Trivia.

* Sonora Louise Smart Dodd, of Spokane, Washington, started the tradition of Father’s Day in the honor of her dad.
* First local Father’s Day was celebrated on June 19, 1910, in Spokane, Washington.
* In 1916, US President Woodrow Wilson approved the idea of observing an annual Father’s Day.
* In1924, President Calvin Coolidge made Father’s Day a national event.
* In 1966 President Lyndon Johnson signed a presidential proclamation declaring the 3rd Sunday of June as Father’s Day.
* Father’s Day is the fifth most popular card-sending holiday, with an estimated $100 million in card sales. Husbands, grandfathers, uncles, sons and sons-in-law are honored as well as father.

Some Quotes about Dad:

“A father is always making his baby into a little woman. And when she is a woman he turns her back again.” — Enid Bagnold

“It no longer bothers me that I may be constantly searching for father figures; by this time, I have found several and dearly enjoyed knowing them all.” — Alice Walker

“None of you can ever be proud enough of being the child of SUCH a Father who has not his equal in this world-so great, so good, so faultless. Try, all of you, to follow in his footsteps and don’t be discouraged, for to be really in everything like him none of you, I am sure, will ever be. Try, therefore, to be like him in some points, and you will have acquired a great deal.” — Victoria, Queen of England

“That is the thankless position of the father in the family-the provider for all, and the enemy of all.” — J. August Strindberg

“It is a wise father that knows his own child.” — William Shakespeare

“It doesn’t matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was.” — Anne Sexton

“One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters.” — English Proverb

“To be a successful father . . . there’s one absolute rule: when you have a kid, don’t look at it for the first two years.” — Ernest Hemingway

“A man knows when he is growing old because he begins to look like his father.” — Gabriel García Márquez

“I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father’s protection.” — Sigmund Freud

“I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example.” — Mario Cuomo

“Be kind to thy father, for when thou wert young,
Who loved thee so fondly as he?
He caught the first accents that fell from thy tongue,
And joined in thy innocent glee.”
– Margaret Courtney

“If the new American father feels bewildered and even defeated, let him take comfort from the fact that whatever he does in any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right.” — Bill Cosby

“Blessed indeed is the man who hears many gentle voices call him father!” — Lydia M. Child

Tribute to Father:

“Honor your father and mother.” This is the first of the Ten Commandments that ends with a promise. And this is the promise: If you honor your father and mother, “you will live a long life, full of blessing.” And now a word to you fathers. Don’t make your children angry by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction approved by the Lord. Ephesians Chapter 6 verses 2 – 4

Fathers are the biggest source of strength for a child. The innocent eyes of a child perceive father as the all-powerful, most knowledge, truly affectionate and the most important person in the family. For daughters, fathers are the first men they adore and fall in love with. While for sons their fathers are the strongest person they know and someone they aspire to emulate. Even for the grownups fathers are someone whom they look up to for the most experienced and honest advice that is always in the best of our interest. For this great figure in our life that we know as father – it becomes our utmost duty to pay our humblest tribute on the occasion of Father’s Day.

Say Thanks to Dad on Father’s Day

Children blessed with a loving father should consider themselves fortunate. For, they have someone to take care of their needs and interests. Someone to stop them when they are diverting to a wrong path and guide them on a road to success and virtue. For many of us fathers have always been there to solve our innumerous mathematics and science problems and explain the same formula hundredth time or better still until it is understood by us. Fathers would never ever give a smallest of hint to let us know how hard they work to take care of our needs and fulfill even the most whimsical of demands… For all their adorable scolding and affectionate punishments we all owe a big thanks to our Dads.

Apologize to Dad on Father’s Day

Father’s Day also brings with it the wonderful opportunity to apologize for all our rude and insensitive behavior. We as children often take the love and affection of our parents for granted and treat them with outright contempt. We need to apologize. We must feel great to have the presence of loving father in our lives and do not disrespect the blessing of God on us. On Father’s Day we must says “Sorry” to our Dad and seek their forgiveness for our wrong behavior.

Celebrate Father’s Day with Dad

We must make all efforts to celebrate Father’s Day with our Dad. Children staying away from father must especially strive to spend the day with father and show gratitude for all their support and love. We must pamper father by spending the day in a manner he likes most. It could be going out for a picnic or indulging him with a gourmet meal. We can also express love with thoughtful gifts accompanied by a bouquet of his favorite flowers. The idea is to show our affection and tell Daddy how much he is loved and appreciated not just on Father’s Day but every single day of our lives.

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Thursday, June 10, 2010

Motivation Quotes - Ways to Move Yourself to Action

Moving ourselves to act can be very tricky. We are motivated through different means that there is no specific formula that applies to all of us. You may be motivated through extrinsic rewards but others prefer to be pushed intrinsically. However, if there is one thing we must know, we all want to hear encouraging words to keep us going. Motivation quotes are the best motivating factors that can help us reach our goals in life against all odds.

Do you feel good about yourself when a friend says something positive about you? Do you feel glad when someone appreciates you? Does hearing your friends' encouragements give you an extra boost of confidence? These are exactly the effects of motivation quotes.

Here are some samples of motivation quotes you should start saying to your loved ones:

o If others can do it, so can I
There are times when we feel like we cannot do something since it is so unreachable. The point is, if others were able to get it, you can too. There are many ways on how you can reach your goals and having role models can help you a lot. Follow what others before you had done to reach their dreams. We are all human beings here and you definitely have what it takes to achieve your goals too. Never think you cannot do something without even trying it.

o Try and try until you succeed
Every successful individual had passed through rough times. It is a fact that everybody encounters many problems and obstacles along the path towards success. It is only normal for you to experience challenges along the way but how you handle them is what matters the most. Always think positive and never allow failures to stop you from going after your goals. Learn from your mistakes and always keep a positive mental attitude.

o Always give the world your best shot
We must never settle for second best. Once we are given the opportunity, we have to grab it and do everything we can in our power to reach our goals. Always do your best in everything you do to avoid disappointments. Try to do things right the first time around by giving your 100% attention and determination.

These motivation quotes are just some of the words of encouragements which can make you move yourself to action. They are very useful especially in achieving your goals as below:

o They can motivate you to go after your aspirations in life despite the challenges that will come your way.
o They give you confidence and self esteem that no matter what happens you have to do your best.
o They can serve as your inspiration and at the same time your guide in doing what is right for you to reach the peak of success.

So move yourself to action by keeping in mind these motivation quotes.

10 Motivation Quotes That Make You Think

Over the years, many successful individuals have left behind valuable words of wisdom that have been quoted for motivational use. These motivation quotes have become very popular and can be seen cited in many places. While I have become a big fan of studying quotes, with this article I am challenging you to go beyond simply reading the quotes and think about how you can take action upon the advice given.

The ten motivation quotes that follow are a great set to get your mind working. In order for them to become motivational to you, they must get you to do something. Read these quotes and think about them. Then take some sort of action to better your life. Bring the quotes to life!

1) "A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier." - Tom Stoppard

Be positive and those around you will become more positive. If they don't, ignore them and go on living your life. Life is too great to waste is self-pity and complaint. Enjoy life and all its moments.

2) "If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams

Be a pioneer and do things differently from everybody else. Create your life the way you want it. Be positive and inspire others to be positive as well. This is the way to make the world a better place.

3) "Your past is not your potential. In any hour you can choose to liberate the future." - Marilyn Ferguson

Let go of your regrets. You are not stuck in your current situation. If you do not like it, do not waste your time complaining; do something about it. Take a step toward a life that you will be happy living.

4) "If at first an idea isn't absurd there is no hope for it." - Albert Einstein

Dream big. Small dreams get crushed easily because they are not worth living. The greatest dreams are what make the greatest achievements and lives worth living. Dream your biggest dreams and go after them with all your heart until they come true. You'll be glad you didn't listen to those telling you that your ideas are crazy.

5) "Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm." - Winston Churchill

Failure is good. It means you tried something difficult. It means you can now learn and move on. Dare to fail because it is simply a stepping stone toward success. Keep moving forward and love the journey of live for all it is and for all it can be.

6) "Those who do not move, do not notice their chains." - Rosa Luxemburg

If you do not take action toward your goals, you are a prisoner to your own life. Do not fear failure, for the only true failure is in not trying. Setbacks are going to happen. On the road to your goals, obstacles are going to appear. By not conquering them you are allowing them to conquer you. Free yourself from your chains and start moving.

7) "Often what seems an impossible climb is just a staircase without the steps drawn in." - Robert Brault

There are few things in this world that are truly impossible. At the same time, there are many things in this world that have not been done yet. Just because something has not been done yet does not mean it is impossible. It just means no one has persisted enough to make it work yet. Be that person who finds the way and enjoy the great rewards that follow.

8) "Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of." - Benjamin Franklin

Life is a series of moments. Each moment that you waste with inaction is a moment that you cannot get back. This inaction makes your life shorter. Live life by doing. Live the life you want to live and make the most of all its moments.

9) "Either you run the day or the day runs you." - Jim Rohn

Take control of your day. Plan out what you want to accomplish and then do it. You can live your day or let it pass you by. Stand up and be the leader of your own life.

10) "Just do it." - Nike

So simple, yet so powerful. This really needs no explanation. You know what you need to do, so just do it!

Take a moment to think about one of these motivation quotes at a time. Apply it to your current situation and then bring it to live. Taking action is what makes these quotes motivational. Taking action is what makes your life meaningful.